Upbringing of children

Dear all,

I observe that no of children ( including ours ) shout at parents and also others when they want to express their anger and also Joy mood .They also don't obey the instructions given by elders and behave rude. It is not at all correct; we are not developing them in the right way. As they grow old, they may not be able to control and such indiscipline way will get them bad name and the fly as well, when they have some problems at office or in social circles, they will show it to parents especially at moms. At one stage, mom will keep mum and ignore for a moment and after some time they will feel for such negative things and start worrying which will affect smooth flow and also health and also other members of the family become very much concerned.

Whenever a child behaves bad with the mother, the mother says immediately to the child, i will tell appa ok in some cases kids don't obey appa also .Both are not correct. In office/factory, the supervisors /managers when ever low productivity indiscipline is observed, they used to say that they will report to top management, slowly, the subordinates will not listen to immediate supervisors and later they will not give respect to bosses even. It’s all because of low morale due to wrong motivation like boss like subordinates, like father like son . We should educate them well, spend more time, motivate them to behave properly, involve them and put them in right direction which will be good for the family and the country as well. Even if one in the family supports bad things, the others will not be respected.

How to go about then is a million $ question. The parents shall be role models and lead by examples in all the managements/areas. Both dad and mom shall have same wave length on these aspects. If not present, pl try to bring the other in to the slot. PARENTS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR CHILDREN, NEVER THE TEACHER OR THE SOCIETY.

I wish all of you please put your best efforts considering the present scenario and act fast.

If appa/amma or even grand parents or others in the fly support/keep mum on bad issues, the kids will take it easy. Hence, please talk to the concerned and make corrections from time to time,(BE ASSERTIVE, for positive/good things, SAY NO FOR SUCH ATTITUDE), otherwise, it would be too late to set right and we will end up with lose, lose situation only.